Wednesday, April 11, 2007

an 'article' about firey toungs

I recently found this article about 'emotional' abuse....
Growing Up everyone always learned the saying "sticks and stones can break my bones....but words can never hurt me..." while nice when we are young how utterly and truly wrong that saying is sticks, stones, those break bones.... and words...words have more furry then anything else... when told enough times that you are "worthless" or a "failure" you start to believe it.... Heck! even simple things like "oh why cant you be like your sister" or "don't you understand I just want whats best for you" People controlling other people... thats all this is about... What people need to understand is... in America you have the right to chose for your self (on most matters) and you never have to do what others want you to.
The reason why Emotional goes unreported is because of fear... fear of disapproving parents... Fear that it is just another thing your 'doing wrong' or another mistake to add to you list.... But it isnt when you take a chance and stand up for yourself! when you do you will feel safe agian and trust me safe is a great feeling....Please read this 'article'

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